Hi, Does this mean that you installed WRF with the dm+sm option? If so, please try dmpar instead. We typically don't suggest using dm+sm because results have been unfavorable.
Per node, are there only 4 cores available? If there are more, try to use all the cores available for each node. You can also increase the number of processors you're using. 36 is not very many for the size of your domains. You should be able to use 100+.
I would like to add that I installed WRF with both options: (dmpar) and (dm+sm). Below are excerpts from rsl.error.0000 for each. Regarding your comment about unfavorable results for dm+sm, I believe this is what you were referring to.
dmpar:
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:05 on domain 3: 65.18736 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:10 on domain 3: 3.05215 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:15 on domain 3: 3.08315 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:15 on domain 2: 188.21999 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:20 on domain 3: 2.95739 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:25 on domain 3: 2.93322 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:30 on domain 3: 3.09663 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:30 on domain 2: 12.84171 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:35 on domain 3: 2.85621 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:40 on domain 3: 3.07203 elapsed seconds
dm+sm:
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:05 on domain 3: 1835.38403 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:10 on domain 3: 1712.58850 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:15 on domain 3: 1824.12122 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:15 on domain 2: ********** elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:20 on domain 3: 1817.42700 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:25 on domain 3: 1793.01123 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:30 on domain 3: 1750.04919 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:30 on domain 2: 9065.50586 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:35 on domain 3: 1732.65112 elapsed seconds
Timing for main: time 2019-01-31_12:00:40 on domain 3: 1722.15918 elapsed seconds